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Cover of "Option B," © 2017 Knopf

You never chose this life.

It wasn’t what you signed on for. It absolutely wasn’t what you wanted, but the decision was out of your hands.

This life was foist upon you, like it or not (mostly not).

View of Book Cover for Death: An Oral History ©2016 Pulp, an imprint of Zest Books

You haven’t printed out your tickets yet.

No worries, though; the trip you’re taking doesn’t require them.

You’re going somewhere where there are no storm delays, no souvenirs, no fancy restaurants, and accommodations will be a surprise.

Members of the Campanella Family Join Military Representatives at St. Agnes Cemetery in Menands, NY for a Memorial to WWII PFC Silvio Campanella on Flag Day in 2017

Several decades passed by while the murder of several American soldiers was kept secret.

But the truth eventually came out, and it gave family members and comrades the chance to properly honor an Albany, NY native who fell victim to Nazi criminals.

Video: Slaves No More

New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

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