New York State Funeral Directors Association

Underwater image of remains of a shipwreck

Funerals for veterans are emotional, symbolic and heartfelt.

They serve not only to memorialize those who sacrificed their lives but also as an expression of a society’s love for those who give their all for their country.

There’s a lot more to do -- we’re about 100 years late in recognizing hundreds and thousands of veterans worldwide who never had a funeral, much less a recognized final resting place.

Partial View of 1855 Census from Albany New York Found for Free through Ancestry and New York Archives and Library Partnership

I probably walked right past my long-lost relative Benjamin several times. But I didn’t know enough to stop at his gravesite to pay my respects.

I’ve been to funerals and visited family members at historic Albany Rural Cemetery many times. I would have searched him out.

I just jumped off a fast-moving career as a newspaper reporter and landed in the communications office of the New York State Funeral Directors Association (NYSFDA). Fitting, I suppose, for someone who spent the past 15 years asking questions that people didn’t want to answer.

I’m no funeral director – but that doesn’t mean I’m unfamiliar with the topic, just ignorant. My senses take over when I ponder what I know about funerals.

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