New York State Funeral Directors Association

Loving, Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient © 2016 Rowman & Littlefield

“Call me if you need anything.”

When your friend shared her diagnosis, that was all you could think to say but, of course, she’ll never call because she has cancer and she needs more than six words.

What to do? Read “Loving, Supporting, and Caring for the Cancer Patient” by Stan Goldberg, and learn what really helps.


Just a couple of years ago, more than 1,000 New York State families were wrestling with the loss of a child less than a year old.

Around 305 families endured the death of a child less 10 in 2014 – and nearly 500 kids aged 10 – 19 were lost that year.


It’s difficult to know what a good gift might be for a friend who is grieving the loss of a loved one.

Fortunately, there’s no shortage of groups doing good work that could use some help - and many will do so in memory of someone your friend has lost.

Video: Slaves No More

New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

Video: Family History

Today, resources are becoming more widely available, giving people the ability to learn exciting stories about their ancestors. Find 14 great tips on the Blog.


SympathyNotes is written to stimulate discussion of death and grief. Opinions do not reflect the views of NYSFDA.

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