New York State Funeral Directors Association

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The last thing I expected to see was a picture of a smiling bikini model with her arm around a mummy. Maybe it was a zombie; I’m not sure what it was.

I’m in a hurry trying to learn all I can about the Funeral Director profession and it turns out the word “funeral” is a bit broad for a general search.

I just jumped off a fast-moving career as a newspaper reporter and landed in the communications office of the New York State Funeral Directors Association (NYSFDA). Fitting, I suppose, for someone who spent the past 15 years asking questions that people didn’t want to answer.

I’m no funeral director – but that doesn’t mean I’m unfamiliar with the topic, just ignorant. My senses take over when I ponder what I know about funerals.

When we first heard about the shootings at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT, most of us experienced overwhelming feelings of shock, disbelief and sadness very much like our reaction to the horror of 9/11.

These feelings of grief can be just as intense as when we lose a loved one who is close to us.

Video: Slaves No More

New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

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